Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Food for Thought 10

This is for my ladies...

Ever wondered why is it that jerks become jerks after the fact that you've fallen head over heels, hopelessly, undeniably in love with that jerk?

Why does it not show from the start??

7 comments:

Zulfahmi said...

The high level of admiration blinded the jerkness...

after the level gone low (as we get to know him more), the blindness is cured

bella muerte said...

Why not kite pon jadi mcm diorng!!!

Ridhwan A. said...

i think girls get too comfortable when guys are being (a bit) nice to them. There's like a sense of urgency on their part in wanting to bring the r/ship to the next level.

eh. wait. why am i blaming girls? guys get too complacent when girls are in love with them. i think most guys are opportunists.

MCP.

Stephanie Morris said...

#Pami - very insightful! i kinda agree!

#Bella - Let's!!!...haha...let's be jerks and not answer their phone calls, or switch off our phones because we feel like it, and look at other men with perverted eyes and gaping mouths while they're beside us...how about it?

#Ridh - Actually, it's a double-edged sword...once the relationship gets comfy, the girls are more eager to hold on, while the guys are just too relaxed.

Anonymous said...

agree wit ridhwan

menarek idea utk jd jerk tu..tp sometimes it's not easy to act like a jerk eventho u r exposed to the jerkiest jerk before. it just does not come naturally for girls to be as jerky as the jerk ass yg dimaksudkn (kesian la.. he deserves another chance la,mybe he's channged for real this time la or this is just not me lalala; those thoughts that girls think are important but do not bother the jerk guy yg dimAKsudkan at all)) ..

huh.. phm x sbenanye?

Stephanie Morris said...

But why must guys be nice, let the girls get comfortable and then just leave us hanging? why not continue to be nice?

Zulfahmi said...

I guess because most guys are not aiming to be in a long relationship... While girls tend to look forward, into the future (marriage anf kids and stuff)